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Mar 2023
35m 25s

Reinventing Yourself After a Relationshi...

CARA ALWILL
About this episode

Today on the show I'm talking to Val Jones, host of The Selfish Woman podcast and certified coach who has spent the last decade helping women burn the rule book, reinvent themselves, and take their power back. Val teaches and speaks from her own experiences of two divorces, emotional abuse, marriage to a narcissist, parenting three kids to adulthood, living as an expat in Spain, and reinventing herself at the age of 51.

In today's episode, we discuss:

>> How to know when its time to go

>> Why being selfish is the most important thing you can be

>> How to identify your relationship patterns

>> Val's biggest lessons after two divorces

>> and so much more

Val Jones is host of the popular podcast, The Selfish Woman and a Life Coach for midlife women who are longing for a reinvention. She is the creator of the powerful online program, Women Rising, which helps women release their past, connect to their authentic self, and design a life that lights them up.

Connect with Val here.

Listen to her podcast, The Selfish Woman, here.

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