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Feb 2023
29m 17s

"How Do I STOP Feeling Guilty for Spendi...

BRIAN PRESTON AND BO HANSON
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Even if you're saving 25% for retirement, it can still be difficult for a lot of people to stop feeling guilty when they spend money. So how do you shift your mindset about spending? We'll walk you through that question and more in today's Q&A episode! Watch more exclusive content only on YouTube! Visit our website - Get our FREE financial resources - Ch ... Show More
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