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Feb 2023
57m 17s

Being The Only One Left (w/ Michael Cruz...

Headgum & Nicole Byer
About this episode

Comedian Michael Cruz Kayne's dating strategy involves being the only guy left available. He joins Nicole to explain the approach and the success that's come with it.  They also discuss how race affects relationships, moving on from them, and his experience getting hit on by the rich kids and moms he was private tutoring. Nicole wishes she was a ~woman~.

Season 2 of A Good Cry returns March 9th. Listen to Nicole's episode here.

 

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