This week's episode is borrowed from an interview I did with Authority Magazine about how to fall in love with your spouse again. We all go through seasons of marriage where we feel more or less connected to each other. Use these 5 tips to rekindle a love that has grown cold. You can read the full article HERE or by searching Monica Tanner on Medium.com. ... Show More
Sep 15
How to Stop Fighting About Desire Discrepancy in Marriage
What if we stop treating a sex drive mismatch like a problem to solve and start treating it like a cycle to understand so neither spouse becomes the villain. Today, I break down spontaneous and responsive desire, then map simple ways to build safety, warmth, and a better sexual c ... Show More
21m 29s
Sep 8
E379 From Sexual Entitlement To Shared Sexual Responsibility
Consent and autonomy matter in marriage, and nobody should feel pressured or coerced into sex. I also believe a monogamous couple can care for their shared sexual relationship without turning it into entitlement, duty, or a fight about who is “the problem”.• the difference betwee ... Show More
22m 45s
Aug 31
E378 What If Better Sex Starts With Play?
I share why so many married couples ruin desire by treating sex like a performance, then show how a playful mindset brings freedom back. We trade judgment for curiosity, build safety with boundaries, and start creating a sex life that fits us instead of chasing someone else’s sta ... Show More
20m 6s
Oct 2023
Steps to Rebuild a Marriage: Episode 312
<p dir="ltr">Are you facing a difficult season in your marriage, feeling weighed down, worn out, or dissatisfied by challenges and conflicts? This type of season is not uncommon for marriages. Though it seems complex and ominous to tackle, there are specific patterns that have br ... Show More
36m 31s