This week's episode is borrowed from an interview I did with Authority Magazine about how to fall in love with your spouse again. We all go through seasons of marriage where we feel more or less connected to each other. Use these 5 tips to rekindle a love that has grown cold. You can read the full article HERE or by searching Monica Tanner on Medium.com. ... Show More
Mar 17
Create Your Own Luck By Making Intimacy Lighter
In this week's episode, I'm talking about how to keep sex and connection from turning into a pressure-filled project by bringing back laughter, flirting, and lightness. I share why playfulness builds emotional safety and give three simple ways to create more “luck” in your love l ... Show More
14m 51s
Mar 10
Desire Differences are NOT Dealbreakers
This week I explore why desire differences are normal, how pressure shuts things down, and how pursuit and emotional safety rebuild connection. I share the Yes And method, practical scripts, and a simple weekly check-in to help couples design intimacy that works for both of them. ... Show More
10m 22s
Apr 2025
Episode 389: How To Improve Your Sexual Satisfaction
<p>In long-term relationships, sexual satisfaction usually starts dropping after the first year as the initial burst of passion begins to wear down. However, this decline in satisfaction is both preventable and reversible. In today’s show, we’re going to talk about how bring exci ... Show More
39m 36s
Oct 2024
Episode 335: How To Have Good Sex
<p>If you had to define “good sex” in just three words, what would they be? In today’s show, we’re going to talk about the key things that come to mind when people are asked this question. There are 20 common responses to this, which constitute the main ingredients of ... Show More
33m 12s
Sep 2024
Episode 324: How To Get What You Want In Bed
<p>A lot of us aren’t getting what we really want in bed. For example, there might be certain positions, activities, or techniques that you prefer or enjoy, but you aren’t quite sure how to ask for them. So in today’s show, we’re going to talk about how to get more of ... Show More
32m 43s