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Feb 2023
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Why You Should Never Settle w/ Lindsey M...

Kornelija Collins
About this episode

EP38: It’s the month of love, so we welcome OG relationship podcast host Lindsey Metselaar! Lindsey is the host of the podcast; We Met at Acme. This podcast is a STAPLE in the dating world. I love her take on relationships. We don’t always see eye to eye on relationship topics, which makes this episode so much more interesting. Lindsey is from NYC and started her podcast when she was single, but is now happily married. She has talked to many different people and listened to many different perspectives. She is full of dating wisdom.

In this episode, we discuss not settling, what red flags to look out for, finding a relationship that makes you feel secure, opinions on cheating, opinions on your man liking IG model’s pics, sobriety, and pretty much EVERY other dating topic you could need. No matter what stage you’re at in dating, this episode is a must for you!

Episode highlights…

  • Welcoming Lindsey
  • Not settling for less than what you want
  • 90/10 rule for security and independence in a relationships
  • Sobriety
  • How Lindsey met her husband
  • Being a public figure and having private relationships
  • Social media in relationships
  • Koko & Lindsey’s opinions on your s/o liking pictures of IG models
  • Koko & Lindsey’s opinion on cheating
  • Rushing into relationships
  • Red flags
  • Lindsey’s career goals

CONNECT WITH LINDSEY:

https://www.instagram.com/lindzmetz/https://www.instagram.com/wemetatacme/https://www.instagram.com/dontexpectsalads/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-met-at-acme/id1300757042

CONNECT WITH KOKO:
https://www.instagram.com/kokobeaute/
https://www.tiktok.com/@kokobeaute
https://www.instagram.com/boujeebestfriend

KOKO ON WE MET AT ACME:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/51w7cln2nAiZAObAvbcFHP?si=_PwzeKyCSIqdr6KxjTPUCg

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