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Jan 2023
53m 12s

the rules we learned as kids... are BS?

Emma Chamberlain
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remember when you were a child and constantly had adults telling you what the rules were? don’t lie, don’t steal... don’t do this, don’t do that. when we’re children, we’re constantly being reminded of certain rules and principles that we’re supposed to follow no matter what. and i think that’s important! but i think in our late teens and early adulthood, we ... Show More
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