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Mar 2021
1h 24m

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Ladies & Tangents
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*TW/CW anxiety, self harm, panic attacks, depression, toxic relationships   Have you ever thought that maybe Debbie Downer is down for a reason? Has she ever tried to tell you that reason? Did you listen? Have you ever stopped to ask “Debbie, why so down?” or did the usual “stop being such a downer” roll right off the tongue? It’s funny! It’s helpful to just ... Show More
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