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Jan 2023
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261: What if your mother was a victim of...

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About this episode

A woman learns shocking truths about what happened to her mom when she was young, while caretaking her mentally ill father and grappling with revelations that haunt the family forever.  

 

Producer: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits

 

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Content/Trigger Warnings: domestic abuse, sexual abuse, explicit language

 

Intro Music: ""Illabye" – Tipper

Music Bed: “Re-Entry” – Lee Rosevere

 

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