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Jan 2023
1h 4m

am I the red flag?

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About this episode
This week the girls are reading “am I the red flag?” submissions & giving their honest opinions. They are discussing bridesmaid rules, brother drama, husbands going out until 2am, breaking it off with a wishy-washy friend, & more.      Shop our MERCH! Shop.DearMedia.com/WHATWESAID    Shop our Jewelry Collection with EVRY Jewels https://evryjewels.co ... Show More
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