logo
episode-header-image
Jan 2023
1h 5m

Dating 3 People At Once

Chris Gethard
About this episode

Is it ok to date multiple people at the same time? A 25-year-old asks Geth to help her choose between 3 guys that are interested in her. She opens up about getting dumped, becoming a serial Hinge dater, and not wanting to hurt other people. They also discuss the importance of having fun while you're young and how to stop thinking so hard.

Up next
Nov 18
What It's Like When Your Partner Dies
<p dir="ltr">A year after unexpectedly losing her partner, this week's caller shares how she's been rebuilding on her own terms. She and Gethard talk about grief, community, resilience, and the power of telling our stories so we don't have to carry them alone.</p> <p dir="ltr">Si ... Show More
1h 19m
Nov 11
Public Access Forever
A grassroots journalist calling in mid-haircut connects with Gethard over a shared love for community media. Together, they break down why public access matters now more than ever: how local TV and community-powered news can connect neighbors, build trust where traditional media ... Show More
1h 20m
Nov 4
Hoarding Disorder Expert
This week's caller has dedicated her life to understanding hoarding disorder. Years ago, she married someone whose relationship with collecting changed the course of her own life. Now she's on a mission to educate others and replace stigma with compassion. She and Gethard get int ... Show More
1h 21m
Recommended Episodes
Jul 2022
Long Term Relationships vs Casual Flings
Are you young and in a long-term relationship? Do you ever feel like you're missing out on your youth by being in a relationship instead of being single? In this episode, we talk about the struggle of being in a relationship while knowing you'll eventually want to explore other p ... Show More
58m 42s
Oct 2018
Building Healthy Relationships
Fr. Mike shares three things that will help you build healthy relationships. If a couple wants to get married, that’s something we should celebrate. However, that doesn’t mean we should blindly encourage them no matter what, and offer cliche advice like, “You’re in love, and that ... Show More
8m 15s
Apr 2015
Why You Should Date Someone You're NOT Into
<p>Is there ever a good reason to date someone you're not really interested in?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia says there are 3 reasons you should go out on at least one date with someone you don't feel chemistry with. </p> 
3m 27s
Jan 2016
Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
<p>Ok, let’s do this.&nbsp;Let’s answer this age-old, much-debated question once and for all right now.&nbsp;But, brace yourself: you may be surprised by what I have to say.&nbsp;The truth is, I don’t think we’re asking ourselves the right question in the first place.&nbsp;</p><b ... Show More
5m 21s
Feb 2020
relationships
This week, Emma takes on the tricky topic of relationships. She gets into some of her past relationships, and how to deal with tough breakups and heartbreak. Plus, why you should consider being friends first, the importance of having time to yourself, and why having different vie ... Show More
50m 21s
Oct 2021
Does THIS Count As Cheating? + What It Means To Be Loyal In A Relationship
<p>Matt and Stephen get into the topic of LOYALTY in a relationship.</p> <p>We discuss:</p> <ul class="ul1"> <li class="li1">Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like a models photo?</li> <li class="li1">Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like an Ex’s Photo? </li> <li class=" ... Show More
47m 49s
Jun 2016
3 Subtle Clues Your Date is Actually Married
I actually hate today’s topic, if I’m being honest. But sadly, it happens far too often: Married men (or men with girlfriends) take women on dates and masquerade as single. Let’s not let them get away with it, ladies! Today I’m revealing 3 subtle clues that give away your date’s ... Show More
5m 53s
Sep 2023
Episode 3 - Being attracted to someone older
In Episode 3, I speak about the benefits and challenges of dating someone older/younger than yourself. I dive deep into the psychology behind age attraction and explain what older/younger age signals to potential partners. Having a relationship with someone much older (>10 years) ... Show More
34m 57s
Jun 2016
Will He Think My Friend is Hotter Than Me?
<p>You’re dating a fantastic new guy and things are going great. It’s time to take the next step and introduce him to your crew. There’s just ONE problem: Your super-hot friend.&nbsp;What if your guy meets her and thinks, “Wow – she’s gorgeous. I picked the wrong one?” </p><br><p ... Show More
4m 20s