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Sep 2022
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#295 How to Talk Dirty - With Sexpert Lo...

Amy Baldwin and April Lampert| Pleasure Podcasts
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What exactly is Dirty Talk? What are the benefits using it to spice up sex? What are some tips for folks who want to up their dirty talk game, and how can people who are desiring to engage in more Dirty Talk talk ask for this from their partner? Sexpert Lola Kat teaches all of this, and even shares a reading in her sensual voice.

About our guest: Lola Kat Yonder is a Sex Positive - Body Positivity Advocate & Sensual Storyteller: She remarks she grew up in the adult industry, 13+ years & counting: including 8 years as a sensual product consultant & small biz marketing director, commercial hostess, & content creator for luxury adult retail; along with 5+ years of experience in sensual voice performance. Colleagues have dubbed her the Wordsmith & the Vanna White of Vibrators.  

In the past, Lola performed 16 years as a classically-trained Church vocalist, as well as contributed 6+ years in senior healthcare. She has evolved from her conservative roots by embracing sexual openness emphasizing intimate education.

She has also competed to model for the Next Face of Torrid 2015, and walked the runway at multiple Body Positivity Empowerment events in Baltimore & NYC; & maintained an active presence on the adult conference circuit, attending events such as Exxxotica & AVN.

Lola’s passions include music, fashion, voiceover, queer positivity, sex toy exploration and empowerment. Her mantra is Style, Makeup, & Masturbation in the Pursuit of Self Love, Intimate Connections, and Positive Mental Health. You can find her commercial work with keywords 'Spice2nite Show' on YouTube, and modeling/ body positivity on @thecoybox on IG

A lifelong learner, she is currently interested in living powerfully as an accomplished woman with adult-ADHD, for which she has started a consultant page ADHDsensual.com. Also learn more about her work at lolakatyonder.com


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