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Nov 2021
32m 12s

1.2 - How we let others get us stuck

John Chao
About this episode

After seeing in episode 1, that we are ultimately the reason why we get stuck, it also allows us to see that we are also ultimately capable of getting ourselves unstuck.

A lot of the reasons why we feel stuck is from outside of us, so this week we look at how we let others get us stuck. In this episode, we discuss:

  1. How we let others influence our decisions
  2. How we let others dictate our worth
  3. How we let others decide our happiness. 

My hope is that once we see the tendencies and the realities of how we let others get us stuck, we can also make arrangements to change that.

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