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Jan 2023
30m 15s

Being Delusional WORKS

Violet Benson
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Happy New Year Besties! Welcome to another year of Almost Adulting! 

To kick off 2023 we’re starting the month with FOUR consecutive Benson Bootcamps. These boot camps are specifically designed so you start the year off strong with help from none other than your big sister, Violet! Now are you ready for your best year yet?

In today's inaugural Benson Bootcamp, we’re setting the tone for this year! How are we doing that? By being DELUSIONAL. And no, not the kind of delusional that your ex-best friend was, but the kind that is going to change your life for the better. Today Violet deep dives into the mindset that she has sworn by from a young age. A mindset that she credits for all the success she’s obtained thus far. By implementing teachings such as the law of assumption, frequency illusions, and being straight up delusional about the life you see for yourself, there is no one who can knock you off your pivot or deter you from the life you’re creating for yourself. This is YOUR year Bestie, now go take it!


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Introduction
  • 03:24 Write down what you want
  • 05:02 When should you be delusional?
  • 10:03 The law of assumption
  • 13:51 Always the lucky one
  • 16:13 “I wanted to be rich…”
  • 22:23 Think of that one person who’s living their best life
  • 23:38 Frequency illusion
  • 26:18 Do this exercise with a friend
  • 27:51 Everything comes in three


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