logo
episode-header-image
Dec 2022
55m 17s

459: How to understand & heal your traum...

MINDBODYGREEN
About this episode

Gabor Maté, M.D.: “95% of trauma is multi-generational. You unwittingly pass it on.” 

Gabor, a physician, New York Times bestselling author, and internationally renowned speaker, joins mbg co-CEO, Jason Wachob, to discuss how buried trauma can harm your health, plus:

- Gabor’s upbringing & his professional work around trauma (~00:42)

- What trauma really means (~05:07)

- Gabor’s personal experience with trauma (~10:18)

- How trauma gets passed down from one generation to the next (~12:47)

- How your personal trauma can affect your physical health (~17:20)

- The relationship between stress and illness (~20:51)

- How to start resolving your trauma (~27:53)

- Why so many people have a hard time saying “no” (~31:39)

- The real reason children start resenting their parents (~34:10)

- Why you don’t actually have to socialize kids (~39:19)

- How our culture makes us sick (~44:00)

- What’s unique about our cultural trauma today (~47:04)

- What we can do about a lack of social connection (~48:40)

- Why we attract others with similar traumas (~52:09)


Trigger warning: This podcast includes mentions of suicidal ideation. You're never alone. If you or someone you know are struggling, call the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988 or visit suicidepreventionlifeline.org. 


Referenced in the episode:

- Gabor's latest book, The Myth Of Normal.

- Gabor's previous bestsellers, Hold On To Your Kids, When The Body Says No, In The Realm Of Hungry Ghosts, and Scattered Minds.

- A study on childhood trauma & adult illnesses.

- A study on self-silencing during conflict & mortality.

- The Roseto study.

- A study on loneliness & mortality.

- Read more about Jean-Martin Charcot.

- Sign up for The Long Game


We hope you enjoy this episode, and feel free to watch the full video on YouTube! Whether it's an article or podcast, we want to know what we can do to help here at mindbodygreen. Let us know at: podcast@mindbodygreen.com.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Up next
Yesterday
612: Muscle, bone & brain: The trifecta for aging powerfully | Vonda Wright, M.D.
“ Don't waste your time and money on things that are perishable. Invest in yourself,” explains Vonda Wright, M.D. Vonda Wright, M.D., double board-certified orthopedic surgeon, internationally recognized sports medicine expert, and member of mindbodygreen’s board of scientific ad ... Show More
46m 12s
Aug 17
611: The surprising tool for navigating conflict & communicating better | Josh Davis, PhD & Greg Prosmushkin
"People don't react to reality. They react to their experience of reality," explains Josh Davis, Ph.D. & Greg Prosmushkin. Josh Davis, Ph.D., cognitive scientist, Columbia-trained psychologist, and author, & Greg Prosmushkin, trial lawyer and author, join us to explain how neurol ... Show More
54m 57s
Aug 10
610: Your guide to HRT & lifestyle changes for menopause | Jila Senemar, M.D., FACOG
“HRT is not just to feel better in the moment. It benefits your health in the long term,” Jila Senemar, MD, FACOG. Jila Senemar, MD, FACOG, distinguished OB/GYN, medical author, and expert consultant, joins us today to dive deep into women’s hormone health, including hormone repl ... Show More
49m 9s
Recommended Episodes
Oct 2022
Dr. Gabor Maté ON: Understanding Your Trauma & How to Heal Emotional Wounds to Start Moving On From the Past Today
You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of ... Show More
1h 21m
Apr 2024
Modern Life Is Making You Sick, But It Doesn’t Have To | Dr. Gabor Maté
New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- Hidden sources of stress — and how to beat them. Also: the myth of normal, the necessity of being disillusioned, and the disutility of comparing your sufferi ... Show More
56m 50s
Feb 2024
Gabor Maté: Why Your Trauma is Showing Up as Guilt, Fear, and Shame & How to Untrap Yourself from the Past
Why does trauma manifest as guilt and shame? How do we untrap ourselves from the past? Today, we welcome back renowned speaker on addiction, stress, and childhood development, Dr. Gabor Maté. They dive into the core of human identity and explore the delicate balance between being ... Show More
1h 13m
Sep 2022
Dr Gabor Maté on Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture #294
Today I’m excited to welcome Dr Gabor Maté back to the podcast for a third time. Gabor is a fellow physician, author, speaker and friend who brings warmth and wisdom to every conversation we have. He’s a renowned expert on addiction, trauma, stress and childhood development – and ... Show More
2h 6m
Sep 2022
Dr Gabor Maté On How to Transform Your Pain to Heal From Trauma & Recover From Addiction
Today’s guest is Dr. Gabor Maté. Gabor Maté is a retired physician who spent 20 years in family practice and worked for over a decade in Vancouver’s Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. He is the bestselling author of four books publis ... Show More
1h 10m
Apr 2023
Modern Life Is Making You Sick, but It Doesn’t Have To | Dr. Gabor Maté
New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- There’s so much to be grateful for in modern medicine. We can all agree that we would not do as well in a world with no Advil or dentistry. And yet, our gues ... Show More
57m 10s
Sep 2022
The Myth of Normal and Toxic Culture - Dr. Gabor Maté
Today's guest is a brilliantly original thinker and bestselling author on addiction, trauma, parenting, and the social context of human diseases and imbalances - Dr. Gabor Maté. Contrary to mainstream medicine, he asserts that most health issues and diseases aren't individual pro ... Show More
38m 59s
Feb 2023
How Trauma Impacts Your Physical Health & How To Heal From It with Dr Bessel van der Kolk #336
CAUTION: This conversation contains themes of an adult nature and references to sexual assault. My guest today is someone who I’ve been wanting to speak to for a very long time. Dr Bessel van der Kolk is a professor of psychiatry at Boston University School of Medicine and Presid ... Show More
1h 42m
Dec 2022
Understanding Men and Their Trauma with Dr. Gabor Maté
Men aren’t toxic, they’re traumatized. Renowned physician, author and speaker Dr. Gabor Maté talks about internalized rage, our toxic world culture, childhood trauma and reframing our approach to mental illness. With over 40 years of clinical experience and personal development, ... Show More
1h 15m
Sep 2023
Why Do We Celebrate Trauma (aka: Resilience)? with Dr. Gabor Maté
Did anyone teach you that understanding your grief is the key to being (or becoming) a healthy human being? Probably not. In this expansive episode, Megan speaks with world-renowned author and physician Gabor Maté about the role of trauma and grief in our personal lives and in so ... Show More
47m 17s