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Nov 2022
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We Over Me

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We wrote a book, y'all! We Over Me: The Counterintuitive Approach to Getting Everything You Want From Your Relationship is more than just a relationship or self-help book though. It's a love letter to our past selves and a commitment to our future. In this episode, we're giving you the tea on what made us write a book and what it gave to us in the process. Dead Ass. 

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