13: You Are Not Your Mistakes

In this episode, I’m talking about the Cornell 7, the “not all men” conversation, and the reality of living as a woman in a world where we’re constantly taught how to protect ourselves, yet so often questioned when something happens to us.This episode isn’t me saying that every m ... Show More

In this episode, I talk about why people will always have opinions about you and why you shouldn't care. From projection and insecurity to outgrowing friendships, setting boundaries, and putting yourself out there, we’ll get into why being authentic and ambitious sometimes mean b ... Show More

Being kind doesn’t make you a pushover...being kind without boundaries does. 😐 In this episode, I talk about the difference between having a good heart and abandoning yourself to keep everyone else comfortable. I also break down 5 practical ways to be kind without being a pushov ... Show More

<p>What happens when you&#39;re the problem? Forgiving yourself when you&#39;ve made a mistake can be challenging. We all go through periods of time in our live where we&#39;re bound to make mistakes, but those mistakes can turn into valuable learning lessons. In this episode, I ... Show More

Self-forgiveness is the start of freedom. If you're hard on yourself, and tend to beat yourself up for past mistakes or unhealthy habits, this episode is for you. Learning how to nurture a narrative of grace and compassion will open you to a powerful growth mindset and free you f ... Show More

<p>All of us are going to mess up. In our 20s and every decade thereafter. But its what we choose to do with those mistakes that's important. In this episode we explore why we often regret past decisions and actions, looking at the development of our brain and personality, we als ... Show More

are you hurt by someone in your past and can't seem forgive and MOVE ON? In this episode, I walk you through the 4 stages of forgiveness so that you can finally move on, stop living in the past and start living your best life! 2022 is finally here, it's time for you to take back ... Show More

<p>Today’s episode is a deeply honest conversation about what it takes to let go of mistakes, forgive yourself, leave your past in the past, and create a new version of you. </p><p>In this moving episode, Mel sits down with her friend Carl Lentz, a former megachurch pastor, who w ... Show More

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're going to talk about what to say to yourself when you make mistakes, and more importantly what not to say to yourself. In this episode you'll learn why mistakes are a good thing and a necessary thing in your growth journey.  ✅ ‌ FR ... Show More

<p>Mistakes are useful for growth and understanding, but they can often be the source of self-criticism. Today, join Elisha for a visualization that will help you reframe a mistake as a moment of growth, directing compassion and forgiveness to yourself.</p> <p>Get 40% off an annu ... Show More