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Apr 2021
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106: Should He Come Over On The First Da...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

It's always a question: How fast should you move when it comes to intimacy? 

The answer: it depends on what your goals are... 

Matt and Steve talk about the value of inside vs. outdoor dates early on in a relationship, how to find out what their intentions are, and what kind of "progress" really matters in dating. 

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