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Sep 2022
51m 43s

Why You're Attracted to Unavailable & Ma...

Jillian Turecki | QCODE
About this episode

It is very painful and confusing when you consistently find yourself in relationships or "situations'' with people who are not fully available to you. In this episode, Jillian explains why you're attracted to people who are not good for you, why you settle for less than what you deserve, and why you may find healthy partners boring. Learn how to break the cycle so that you can have a chance at healthy, recropical love.

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