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Oct 2022
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Right Person, wrong Time - The Truth Beh...

Violet Benson
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Today, Besties, Violet is taking a break from discussing cults because ya'll couldn't even go 2 weeks without falling apart and needing your big sis for advice!! so Violet is here for the rescue with today's AMAZING episode all about the truth behind "right person, wrong time"



Depending what you take from today's episode, for those who decide to walk away from their situationship, Violet softens the blow by finishing the episode, with 9 steps to get over someone, even if you never actually dated!

The 9 steps are:

1 . Cut communication

2. Cry, like a lot

3. Get a hobby

4. Don't react to anything

5. Get your ass out of the house

6. Find yourself a rebound

7. Forgive your ex

8. Trust that time heals

9. Forgive yourself and LOVE YOURSELF



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