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Sep 2022
40m 13s

Quit Doing Sh*t You Hate

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#61. In this episode, Payton is talking about how to be okay with quitting things that don't excite or serve you anymore.   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain  SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: h ... Show More
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