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Sep 2022
22m 41s

Drive us crazy: pet peeves, red flags an...

Coffee and Cleavage
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Shantal, Lynnie and Gary - chat about pet peeves, red flags and deal breakers.  Being rude to wait staff on dates, wanting to meet the family too soon, not caring about your orgasm?! The trio chat about the things that drive them crazy in day to day, dating and in the bedroom. 

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