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Sep 2022
50m 16s

247: What if you didn't see the signs?

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About this episode

Bill Mitchell built a successful career, marriage and family, but just as his bright and loving daughter graduates from college with big dreams, an unthinkable event irreversibly changes everything. 


Today’s episode featured Bill Mitchell. Bill has a book and podcast, both called When Dating Hurts. You can find out more about Bill, his book and his podcast, all at whendatinghurts.com. You can also find his book on Amazon.


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If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

 

Content/Trigger Warnings:  domestic violence, graphic bodily injury, murder, death, explicit language

 

Producer: Whit Missildine, Jason Blalock

 

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Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper

Music Bed: “Union Flow” – Spuntic

 

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If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources.

 

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 

National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264

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