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Aug 2021
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97 - Clinging to Illusions

Anthony De Mello/The DeMello Spirituality Center
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When you cling, life is destroyed; when you hold on to anything, you cease to live.  Desire breeds anxiety but we don't want to see it. But when you’ve suffered sufficiently, then you will be ready to see it. 
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