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Mar 2021
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80 - The First Step in Waking Up is Admi...

Anthony De Mello/The DeMello Spirituality Center
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The first thing to understand, if you really want to wake up, is that you don’t want to wake up. The first step to waking up is to be honest enough to admit to yourself that you don’t like it. You want to stay in your nice warm bed made of illusions and false beliefs. 
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