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Sep 2021
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#60 - On Sexual Abuse (Part I)

Waheed Jensen
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*TRIGGER WARNING: Episode discusses themes of sexual abuse, assault and rape*

This is part I of a 2-episode series on the topic of sexual abuse, assault and rape.

In this episode, we tackle some relevant definitions and statistics, discuss some reasons why survivors do not disclose their sexual abuse experiences, and highlight some of the psychological and emotional repercussions of sexual abuse. We also cover some facts and myths with regards to unwanted sexual experiences, particularly those relating to male sexual abuse.

Why do many survivors of sexual abuse experiences keep such incidents to themselves and prefer secrecy? Why is there more shame surrounding male sexual abuse than female sexual abuse? Do childhood sexual abuse experiences contribute to the development of same-sex attractions? Is there a chance for survivors of sexual abuse to become perpetrators themselves? These and other questions are explored in this episode.

References used and resources mentioned in this episode:
- Guidelines from the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry on communicating with survivors of childhood sexual abuse
- Jim Hopper: Sexual Assault and the Brain
- Booklet “Understanding Children’s Sexual Behaviors: What’s Natural and Healthy” by Dr. Toni Cavanagh Johnson
- "Do Children Sexually Abuse Other Children?” online guidebook by  "Stop It Now"
- "Why Do People Sexually Use or Abuse Children?" article from 1in6 website
- "Am I Going to Become Abusive?" article from 1in6 website

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