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Jun 2022
1h 43m

The 5 Things Every Woman MUST DO To Beco...

Impact Theory
About this episode

Is being an independent woman about the way you dress? Is it about how others see you or feel threatened by you? Of course not! Those may be small factors in a much bigger picture, but being an independent woman is more internal than external.

Are you thinking for yourself and putting yourself and your dreams first or allowing yourself to prioritize everyone else? When we start to do internal work, we begin to understand ourselves on a much deeper level. Doing so allows you to find confidence and let go of the insecurities and doubts that may have forced you to play small in the past, but those days are gone.

Are you ready to start doing for yourself what you’ve been doing for everyone else and flourish?

From managing your finances and opportunities to ditching your shame and making friends out of the inner b*tch that reminds you of every time you’ve messed up and what you’ll likely get wrong again, this episode is packed with a few of the most badass independent women and independent women supporters around.

What does being an independent woman look like for you?


Our guests on this episode include:

Mel Robbins is a motivational speaker, television host, and the author of The 5 Second Rule and The High 5 Habit. She went from being a criminal defense attorney to one of the most inspirational and motivational speakers and public figures around.

Patrice Washington is known as the Wisdom & Wealth Money Maven. She founded Seek Wisdom Find Wealth. She’s empowering money to develop better money habits, taking women from debt management to money mastery.

Cyntia Pasquella-Garcia is the Modern-Day Coach that helps people become self-made. She’s inspiring women to rewrite their story by being the example. She’s no stranger to struggle and is expert at helping people ditch their shame and stop apologizing.

Tom Bilyeu co-founded a billion-dollar brand Quest Nutrition and is the co-founder and other half of Impact Theory alongside his totally badass wife, Lisa Bilyeu. His mission is pulling people out of the matrix to realize that human potential is nearly limitless.


SHOW NOTES:

0:00 | Introduction to Independent Women

0:10 | Find & Pursue Your Dreams

18:44 | Become Your Best Self

42:42 | Don’t Be a Victim

1:06:28 | If He’s Threatened By Your Independence


Go to https://www.radicalconfidence.com to get your copy of my book Radical Confidence! When you do, you’ll be getting a toolkit of 10 No-BS lessons on becoming the hero of your own life - and you’ll learn how to set better boundaries, live a life that lights you up, and give you the ability to boldly stare down ANY frikin’ thing that gets between you and the things you want from life!


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Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary!

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