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Nov 2016
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Ep. 80 - Shame Resilience

Jeanine Bailey & Marie Quigley
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Shame is a human experience. It is a diminishing feeling of not being good enough, not being worthy enough. ICF accredited coach Melissa Loizou gets curious with Empower World co founder Marie Quigley about how, as coaches, we can support our clients to move from shame into worthiness.

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