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Sep 2019
28m 15s

The Nature of Requests

TruStory FM
About this episode
This week on the show, we’re going to explore the nature of requests, how to engage as a listener in those conversations and a powerful alternative to merely accepting or declining what one asks of you: the counteroffer. 
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