It was the wrong thing for you.
Hitting a crossroad where you can no longer ignore the reality that you were hoping you wouldn’t have to confront kinda sucks. Sometimes we no longer have the excuse of not knowing. When the truths that confirm what we knew all along are now in our face we have to make the decision we were hoping to avoid. We are complex by nature and we feel things but feelings don’t mean truth, they are just a way we convince ourselves that what we are feeling is true.
Losing what we hold onto just because the thought of having it makes us feel safer is only the cushion that we are hoping we can land on if we fall AND maybe it won’t hurt as much.
Too bad that what I was hoping would help break my fall was causing me to trip all along.
Suspicion was going up. Peace was going down. It was a lot harder to keep them around then to lose them. So I made a decision. Being loyal to a lie was never going to leave me with peace.
Truth in Hebrew = stability.
If a relationship gives you stability and it leaves, you will be undone.
The stability I will give you will never be taken way from you. – God.
The truth might hurt us but the truth will also…
set you free from living in uncertainty.
set you free from having to wonder all the time.
That pain fuels your passion and will bring you to your purpose.
The truth is now letting you correct the mistakes you were making.
This episode is also available as a blog post: http://bossbabeliving.home.blog/2021/02/06/dysfunction-isnt-love/
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