logo
episode-header-image
May 2022
21m 38s

236. Thoughts Are Temporary

KARA LOEWENTHEIL
About this episode

Our brains think they can predict the future. They’ll take one instance, generalize it into a pattern, and try to convince us that one of our fleeting thoughts or a fleeting thought that others have about us is a constant state (and rarely is it a pleasant one!).

So, if your brain is hung up on what other people are thinking about you, what can you do to get some relief? Listen to this week’s podcast episode to learn the very thought I recently coached one of my colleagues on that can help you give less of a sh*t about what other people are thinking about you.

Get full show notes and more information here: https://unfuckyourbrain.com/236

Mentioned in this episode:

Struggling to make progress on your goals or facing anxiety in relationships? It could be because your brain has wrongly connected your survival to things that aren't actually life-threatening. In this new free training, Safety is an Inside Job, I’m teaching you how to disconnect those patterns and create lasting change. Join me on May 14 for this interactive session—sign up here: https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/safety-training

Safety Training

Up next
Yesterday
404. Creativity, Positive Thinking, and Self-Love: Takeaways From Clutch College Live Online (Greatest Hits)
In this week's Greatest Hits episode, I’m re-sharing 3 powerful takeaways from a recent event that have the potential to shift how you view yourself and your life. You'll hear how you have more creative potential than you realize, why resisting reality is the most painful thing y ... Show More
23m 19s
Jul 8
403. Coaching Hotline: Struggle Bus & Job Confusion
In this weeks Coaching Hotline episode, I’m answering two listener questions that tackle different sides of mental resistance. The first deals with whether you should do thought work when you're struggling emotionally—what I call being on the "struggle bus." The second addresses ... Show More
14m 6s
Jul 3
402. The Power of Being Wrong, Why Your Goals May Be Closer Than You Think, and Other Takeaways From Clutch College Live (Greatest Hits)
Do you ever feel stuck on your journey, unsure of how far you’ve really come? In this episode, I’m sharing three key takeaways from a previous live event, starting with why it’s so hard to accurately assess where you are—and how that holds you back from making real progress.We’ll ... Show More
17m 40s
Recommended Episodes
Apr 2022
156 - Friday Fix: How to Respond to Unhelpful Thoughts
Your brain tries to be helpful. It tells you about the dangers you should be looking out for so that you don’t get hurt. It also likes to remind you of past mistakes in an attempt to prevent you from repeating them. Of course, though, your brain doesn’t always get it right. It ma ... Show More
9m 42s
Nov 2023
Episode 373: Overcoming Overthinking
Hey everyone! Hope you're finding moments of peace amidst the chaos. Today's episode peels back the layers of anxiety that can really twist our brains into knots. We're responding to a heartfelt question from a listener who's finding themselves in a tangle of overthinking, especi ... Show More
31m 23s
Jul 2020
0181 | The Annoying Roommate in Your Mind
I’m sure you’ve seen it. The pretty Instagram post that says, “You are not your thoughts.” Heck, we’ve even posted that exact post from the Peak Mind account!  But, you might be wondering what that even means, and that’s what we’re diving into with this week’s episode of the podc ... Show More
44m 27s
Dec 2020
Useful Thinking with Mo Gawdat
Mo Gawdat wants to help you regain control of your thoughts! The former CBO at Google, author, happiness guru, and serial entrepreneur, solves problems for breakfast, and he's here to share his intriguing concept of useful thinking. On today's Braincare Podcast, we discover where ... Show More
14m 47s
Aug 2022
How to be POSITIVE when you struggle with negative thoughts and energy!
In this episode, we'll talk about creating a positive future by learning how to stop limiting thoughts. Today we're talking about how to be positive when you have negative thoughts. We all have negative thoughts from time to time, whether it's about ourselves or other people. But ... Show More
10m 50s
Nov 2022
Analyze Thyself: The ABC Method And Thought Journals
• To rewrite our negative thought patterns, We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.”• We can use the ABCDE acronym (activating event, belief, consequence, disputation, and new event) and explore the stories we’re telling in a thoug ... Show More
1h 1m
Apr 2022
813: What To Do With Intrusive Thoughts
In today's episode, Gina discusses intrusive thoughts, how to handle them and how to keep them from causing you more anxiety. Studies show essentially everyone experiences some form of intrusive thoughts. You don't need to be afraid of them. You don't need to identify with them.  ... Show More
21m 45s
Nov 2022
231 - A Model of Thinking
The stoics teach us that we have control over a few things - our thoughts, our choices, and our actions. In short, our will. So is there a way that we can get better with our thinking, and improve our outcomes? Today I want to talk about a model that can help us be more aware of ... Show More
10m 44s
Jul 2023
263 - No Self
Do you think of yourself as a “self”? What if we had no part of us that was an enduring self? How would that change how you acted in the world? Today I want to talk about the idea of how we would view the world different if there was no self.Who Am “I”?“It is not so much what hap ... Show More
12m 42s