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May 2022
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233: What if they invaded your home?

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About this episode

“It honestly felt like my whole life had just gone from this amazing color filled motion picture to just going into something so black and white…just feeling so alone all of the time.”

 

Today’s episode featured Evelyn. You can reach out to her through email at everetdev@gmail.com

  

Producers: Whit Missildine, Sara Marinelli

 

Episode Summary: Growing up in a loving Mexican immigrant family in the US, everything changes in a young girl’s life when a home invasion, abandonment and unprocessed losses mount, leading to a dramatic wake up call.

 

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Content/Trigger Warnings: graphic violence, mental illness, explicit language

 

 

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Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper

Music Bed: “Cylinder Four/Five” – Chris Zabriskie

 

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