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Apr 2022
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S3 / E118 Obsessive Desire: Stalking Fay...

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About this episode

Faye is being stalked by an ex-boyfriend who is obsessed with Asian women.

While working out at the gym, Faye met an employee who found her personal information in the company database and sent her a Facebook friend request.

Their friendship became romantic, but when she wanted to become exclusive, he ghosted her, and it turned into an on and off-again relationship.

After Faye started dating a new man, her stalker repeatedly showed up at her apartment, threw water bottles at her windows, and called her non-stop for over a year.

She blocked him on social media, but he created fake profiles to reach out, followed her friends and family, made cruel comments on posts, and sent her sexually explicit messages.

He showed up in public places and approached Faye, so she obtained a restraining order, but it has not prevented him from continuing to stalk her.

Faye is coming forward to share her story to amplify resources and shed light on hate crimes against AAPI (Asian Americans and Pacific Islander) women.

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