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Mar 2021
1h 16m

Family #4: Rhutu & Avikar

Armchair Umbrella
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Dr. Mogel answers the question: Will my children hate me if I’m strict? Will they hate me if I’m not? She also teaches us new words: etterpåklokskap & mamihlapinatapei  
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