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Mar 2022
22m 6s

How NOT to get Swindled

Erika Cramer
About this episode

Can YOU get Swindled?

After watching the popular documentary on Netflix “The Tinder Swindler”, I knew I needed to talk about this on the podcast.

If you haven’t seen it yet, It’s about a man who ends up swindling many women out of thousands of dollars he meets on this popular dating app. 

Undoubtedly, this man is a cheater and an experienced swindler and these women ended up giving a lot of money to this man without paying attention to the red flags or listening to their intuition. 

But the question is how the fuck did this happened to them? 

What could these women have done to avoid being swindled?

Many say they were “dumb” and “didn’t they see what was happening?” Others see them as victims who are innocent in every way.

After this episode check in with how you see what happened… Is this something that could’ve happened to you?

I have most definitely been swindled in the past and I hope that if you have as well, this episode resonates.

Have single friends, please share this episode with them.

Here are the previous episodes mentioned in this podcast. You can check them all to learn more. Enjoy! 


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