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Mar 2022
10m 48s

Your New Life Will Cost You Your Old One

CARA ALWILL
About this episode

Have you ever felt paralyzed at the thought of making changes in your life? No matter how badly we want something, it can be challenging to see ourselves as the person who can actually make it happen.

So we wait. We put our success in the hands of "fate" or someone else who can give us our big break. Then, when it doesn't happen, we tell our old tired story of how we're "unlucky", we're not worthy, and that we'll never have the life we want.

In today's episode, I'm sharing my best tips and my own personal process on how to see things differently, and release the thoughts and things that are keeping you stuck. Grab a notebook, you'll want to take notes for this one.

 

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