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Feb 2022
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221: What if you were addicted to each o...

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About this episode

“All that stuff I went through, the abuse, the physical, verbal, everything was not rock bottom for me….Me realizing that I was being abusive to people I loved, that was my rock bottom.”

 

Producers: Whit Missildine, Jason Blalock

 

Episode Summary: A woman struggles to free herself from the catastrophic consequences of an obsession with a man she cannot leave

 

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Content/Trigger Warnings: infant death, domestic violence, graphic domestic abuse, near death, abortion, explicit language

 

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Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper

Music Bed: “Re-Entry” – Lee Rosevere

 

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