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Jan 2022
50m 51s

How to stop orgasm blocking thoughts

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This week it’s all about putting your orgasm and sex life first! We are conditioned as women to believe that our orgasm comes second during sex, but that is just not true! On this week’s episode we explore those thoughts that come into our brains during sex that stop us climaxing and feel us leaving a bit flat and unsatisfied.

 

  • Fi has an announcement to make!
  • A listener letter about an orgasm issue
  • How to stop those pesky thoughts that come into our brain mid ride
  • What we can do to prioritise our orgasms and sex life

 If you have any questions or want some dating advice then you can email us on info@lovebitespodcast.com and you might hear it on the next episode!

L&F x

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