It’s frustrating but true: sex isn’t a button that we can automatically turn on and off. In fact, “sex” is a catch-all term for arousal, body exploration, play, and erotic collaboration—not simply penetration. So what do you do when you want to get naughty, but your body isn’t on-board?
On today’s Ask Emily show, we’re taking a look at the body’s response t ... Show More
Oct 6
The Oral Sex Skill Nobody Teaches
Great oral sex isn’t about mastering a technique, memorizing tutorials, or finding one magic trick. It’s about being present enough to listen to your partner’s body. In this episode, I’m sharing how to build a sexual language with your partner through attention, communication, an ... Show More
18m 12s
Sep 30
What Nobody Taught You About Vaginas
Sexual communication isn’t a sign that something is wrong—it’s how sex gets better. When your partner says “slow down,” “stay right there,” or asks for something different, they aren’t rejecting you. They’re giving you the roadmap to what feels good for them right now. In this ep ... Show More
22m 53s
Aug 2021
Sex as Self-Care: How to Make Pleasure Your Default
Have you ever wondered how to get your sexy back and feel good in the process? Between work, the kids and their activities, and taking care of your aging parents, you fall into bed exhausted every night. You remember a time when sex was the best thing ever, but now, you can take ... Show More
55m 7s
Dec 2023
LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX! toys, blow jobs, penetration OH MY
<p>IT’S TIIMMEEE! Let’s talk about sex. When the spark dies off, when you have opposite work schedules, swingers, initiating & MORE...</p>
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1h 16m
Sep 2023
A Game Of Sexual Dilemmas
In this episode, I delve into the realm of intimate conversations between women. My assistant and I openly discuss and ask each other a series of thought-provoking sexual dilemma questions, aiming to explore various aspects of relationships, boundaries, and personal experiences. ... Show More
1h 32m