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Quickie w/ Julie: The #1 Skill You Can Have In Dating
In this episode, Julie is breaking down the biggest change she made when dating the last time around before meeting her now-husband: seeking clarity. If you’ve ever overanalyzed a text, questioned where you stand, or stayed because “maybe it’ll become clear,” this conversation wi ... Show More
9m 14s
Jul 2025
The Ultimatum: Queer Love S2 Couples Exclusive
<p>On this episode of What’s The Reality, AD sits down with two standout couples from The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2, AJ & Britney and Dayna & Magan, for an unfiltered conversation about love, growth, and everything that went down on (and off) camera.</p><p>Fresh off the reun ... Show More
2h 2m
Jan 2025
490: The Window of Tolerance And Staying Emotionally Regulated
In this episode of Relationship Advice, Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich explore the concept of the "Window of Tolerance," a framework developed by Dr. Dan Siegel. They discuss its importance in maintaining emotional regulation and improving relationships. The ho ... Show More
50m 45s
Mar 2025
Curiosity Over Questioning
What’s the difference between curiosity and questioning in relationships? Learn about the importance of approaching emotional challenges with openness rather than interrogation. Colter, Cayla, and Lauren share their personal journey into couples therapy, attachment theory, and th ... Show More
50m 34s
Xavier tells us about the lengths he took to be with the girl he loved including moving from San Francisco to China to New York, and entering into an open relationship per her request. We discuss monogamy, polyamory, and how far you would go for love.
WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/
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<p>In this episode, I address questions like:</p>
<p><em><strong>“Did I fall out love with my partner?”</strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>“What if I feel love toward my partner, but don’t feel IN LOVE with my partner?”</strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>“What if we fall out of love ... Show More
