Apr 28
S22E12: The Science of Intimacy, Sex, and Love w/ Dr. Justin Garcia
At our core, we’re not just wired for sex—we’re wired for deep connection with another human being. In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Justin Garcia, leading sex researcher, evolutionary biologist, and Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute, who shares the science behind wh ... Show More
1h 24m
Jul 2025
The Ultimatum: Queer Love S2 Couples Exclusive
<p>On this episode of What’s The Reality, AD sits down with two standout couples from The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2, AJ & Britney and Dayna & Magan, for an unfiltered conversation about love, growth, and everything that went down on (and off) camera.</p><p>Fresh off the reun ... Show More
2h 2m
Jan 2025
490: The Window of Tolerance And Staying Emotionally Regulated
In this episode of Relationship Advice, Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich explore the concept of the "Window of Tolerance," a framework developed by Dr. Dan Siegel. They discuss its importance in maintaining emotional regulation and improving relationships. The ho ... Show More
50m 45s
Mar 2025
Curiosity Over Questioning
What’s the difference between curiosity and questioning in relationships? Learn about the importance of approaching emotional challenges with openness rather than interrogation. Colter, Cayla, and Lauren share their personal journey into couples therapy, attachment theory, and th ... Show More
50m 34s
Xavier tells us about the lengths he took to be with the girl he loved including moving from San Francisco to China to New York, and entering into an open relationship per her request. We discuss monogamy, polyamory, and how far you would go for love.
WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/
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<p>In this episode, I address questions like:</p>
<p><em><strong>“Did I fall out love with my partner?”</strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>“What if I feel love toward my partner, but don’t feel IN LOVE with my partner?”</strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>“What if we fall out of love ... Show More