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Jun 2016
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Season 2 Episode 9: How far would you g...

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
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Xavier tells us about the lengths he took to be with the girl he loved including moving from San Francisco to China to New York, and entering into an open relationship per her request. We discuss monogamy, polyamory, and how far you would go for love.

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