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May 2016
19m 5s

Season 2 Episode 4: Are we asking too mu...

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
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Sam talks about a Tinder date gone wrong after a stand up and group date to his date’s DJ show. We talk about expectations, vetting, and commitment to meet someone via a dating app. Also Yue spills about her Tinder test from the Season 1 finale. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want t ... Show More
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