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Nov 2017
47m 46s

Mind Games

Stephen J. Dubner and Stitcher
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How to make people like you, why you should lick rocks, and what an awkward person is really thinking. Angela Duckworth (Grit author) is co-host; Mike Maughan (Qualtrics) is live fact-checker.

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