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Sep 2021
1h 2m

Playing Hard to Get (w/ Ms. Pat)

Headgum & Nicole Byer
About this episode

Comedian Ms. Pat chats with Nicole about her time in jail for drug trafficking, shares the secrets behind her 28 years of marriage, and offers advice on how to play hard to get. Plus, Ms. Pat's not happy that Nicole's sleeping around with random audience members, so she decides to set Nicole up with a man.

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