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Sep 2021
55m 13s

Yelp for Escorts (w/ Alexa Eason)

Headgum & Nicole Byer
About this episode

Full-service sex worker Alexa Eason shares about her life as an escort. She teaches Nicole about BDSM, the relationship risks involved with sex work, Instagram's censoring of fat bodies, and the dreaded "Yelp for Escorting" sites where escorts are ranked against each other. Alexa gives advice for anyone looking to get started doing sex work.

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