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Aug 2019
20m 29s

Always Free Episode 23

JASON GRAYSTONE
About this episode

In this episode I read out an email I received from one of my newsletter readers.

The subject is around being selfish to be selfless. 

People often think that by putting others first all the time, that they are more giving and supporting. This is normally not true.

The more true you can be to yourself, and the more selfish you can be to get in a place of certainty, the more people you will be able to serve. But there is a trick to it.

Have a listen, I would love to hear your thoughts.

 

Also, Have a listen to the episode of The Leadership Vaccine podcast that I featured on talking about how wealth helps you be a better leader.

http://bit.ly/leadershipvaccine

 

Enjoy!

 

JG

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