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Jun 2020
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TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses mental health and abusive relationships  A playful episode with Phoebe Thompson to discuss navigating the world as fierce and proud to be, sexual woman. Phoebe opens up about her physical appearance, the male gaze, her character portrayal on Love Island and the type of “love” she recieves to her DMs. Some noteworthy quotes from this episode are “Just a little bit of labia” and “Big naked Whore.” Phoebe is a role model when it comes to owning your sexuality, which is discussed in this episode with Abbie.  Please note, this episode was recorded prior to the incredibly devastating events unfolding in the US. Abbie breaks down her throughs and useful links in the beginning of this episode. You can find those mentioned below.  You can follow Phoebe on insta @phoebethompson_x Photo referred to in this episode  PHOTO 1  Mentioned in this Episode  People To Follow  Bobo and Flex Podcast Flex Mami  Erika Hart  Shishi Rose  Ms Packyetti  Where you can Donate  George Floyd Memorial Fund By his bother Minnesota Freedom Fund  I run with Maud - Justice for Ahmaud Arbery Fundraiser  Justice For Breonna Taylor Petition and Fundraiser  National Bail Out Fund - Free Black Mans  For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod Abbie and Phoebe Thompson featured in this episode are not mental health professionals, any advice is speaking from personal experiences only. If you are struggling, please seek professional mental health treatment or call LifeLine on 13 11 14. If you are struggling with violence at home, please visit Reach Out 1800 RESPECT  or LifeLine   

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