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Mar 2021
1h 13m

I Don't Have Shit To Say To Anyone

Julia Hava & Eliza McLamb
About this episode
Pick me... choose me... love me... we've all known her & we've all been her! This episode, the ladies talk about "pick me" behavior, discuss the implications of the term, and read some listener submissions about your most flopulous times as a pick me. Digressions include reading Kaitlin Bennett's tradwife tweets, Julia's brief stint as a second amendment stan, and Eliza's fourth grade Clay Aiken cosplay

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