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Jul 2021
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What if you survived a genocide? [Rebroa...

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About this episode

"No one can even understand. You can't measure the magnitude of that pain. You can't measure the pain that we went through."

 

Producer: Whit Missildine

 

Episode Summary: A refugee recounts her experience of the horror and devastation of the Rwandan genocide.

 

This episode is part of the Summer 2021 rebroadcast series, featuring listener favorites from the back catalogue. All episodes in this rebroadcast series were released prior to episode #130, which are currently exclusive to the Wondery Plus. Today’s episode originally aired as #113 in August 2018

Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at https://wondery.com/plus


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Content/Trigger Warnings: extreme violence, war, genocide, murder, assault, explicit language

 

Intro Music: ""Illabye" – Tipper

Music Bed:   "Cylinder Four" - Chris Zabriskie; "Water" - Johannes Welsch

 

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