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Apr 2018
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11 A Double Mitzvah! (Robby Hoffman & Da...

REMY KASSIMIR
About this episode

Religion shapes a lot of how we how we think of relationships and sex. On this episode we delve into the religion I was born into, JUDAISM!(Le'Chaim!)

Two formidable, accomplished, & brilliant Jewish humans join me:

We talk jews vs non jews in the bedroom, being gay/ coming out, dating apps, leaving Hasidic Judaism,  and some stuff I learned on Birthright that I had questions about. (Specifically the Mikva. If you don't know what that is, don't worry-- neither did I!)

David also asks me to explain my never published dating manifesto "Date Like You Have a Boyfriend."  and I give you all some dating tips! Mazel Tov! (Oy Vey.)

CW: Heteronormative language 

Follow us @remykassimir @howcumpodcast @davidyarus  @robbyhoffman

Extras on Patreon.com/HowCum

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