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Jan 2021
1h 22m

Promising Young Women (Bonus)

REMY KASSIMIR
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Remy and Ben are back to discuss rape-culture, Armie Hammer's cannibalism "scandal" and abuse of upward of 200+ "Kittens" (young women) and Emerald Fennell's powerful and radical new anti-rape film, Promising Young Woman.* (SPOILERS) 

TW: Rape, assault, abuse, cannibalism, violence

*This film is now considered "required viewing" by the How Cum team. Rent it on YouTube or search google for where it is streaming in your country if not available there 

Instagram accounts mentioned: @houseofeffie @soph_ross

Rolling Stone Article mentioned

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