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Mar 2020
47m 43s

38. How to Love and Lead Your Wife

SUZANNE VENKER
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Dear Men,

Do you wish your wife would stop nagging and have more trust and faith in you? Do you wish she would smile more and complain less? Look at you the way she did when you were dating?

You have the power to make it happen.

Women respond to men who are fully grounded in their masculine core. When you master this skill, you’ll find the wife you remember from all those years ago is back. There will be far less bickering and much more sex. Life at home will become a sanctuary instead of a war zone.

Aren’t convinced? Join Suzanne and  GS Youngbloodhttps://www.gsyoungblood.com/  author of The Masculine in Relationship, to learn how to love and lead your wife so that she naturally softens and becomes easy to love. And isn’t that what you want?

10:58  Qualities of men who aren't living in their masculine core

14:00  You can’t address an emotional expression with information

14:40  When a man doesn’t OWN something, it’s frustrating for women

17:28  How to respond vs. react to your woman’s actions and outbursts

22:30  When men react with anger, women feel unmoored. Anger severs connections.

35:00 What a man who lives in his masculine core looks like:

41:55 When you ground yourself and live in your masculine core, something amazing happens: the playful, sexual women you knew before (when you were dating) emerges

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